This is both a conduct book and a work of epistolary fiction, in the style of Sarah Fielding
's The Governess, like it much concerned with the building of friendships. JT
, who contributed the letters of the daughter, Laura, was never, like her, sent away to boarding school.
The protagonists' misdemeanours range from not looking before crossing the road (punished by being run over by a bus) to trying to make an unpopular governess vanish through the application of vanishing cream (punished by finding the governess is just as bad when invisible).
Maxtone Graham, Ysenda. The Real Mrs Miniver. John Murray, 2001.
At the time of the 1841 census, JS
was living at Maesllwch with her two younger children and two of her sisters who were still unmarried. She had six female servants and a sixteen-year-old male servant living in, while a coachman lived in the lodge with his wife and five small children. The coachman and his wife, both aged thirty-one, were the oldest members of the household. By 1851 JS had only her daughter at home: her sons were grown and gone. One of her resident sisters had married, borne four children, and died, and her husband was back with their children to live at Maesllwch as its estate agent. (Presumably he oversaw the completion of the building work there which JS's first husband had left unfinished.) There were the same number of servants as before, plus a governess, who was not listed as a servant. One of the coachman's children had died and two more had been born. By 1861 JS had remarried and left Maesllwch. The only family member in residence was her elder son, who in another decade had married, produced a son (named, of course, Walter), and more than doubled the number of servants. By 1881 he was dead, and his widow's second husband was head of the household.
Page, Anna. “Maesllwch Castle: The seat of an influential family”. Powys Ditigal History Project: Communities Menu: Hay and the Wye Valley.
HBS
is remembered above all as having contributed substantially with Uncle Tom's Cabin to the build-up of anti-slavery feeling in the North before the Civil War. The sense of her influence is encapsulated in the possibly apocryphal comment which Abraham Lincoln
is supposed to have made upon meeting her in 1862: So you're the little woman who wrote the book that started this great war!
qtd. in
Hedrick, Joan. Harriet Beecher Stowe: A Life. Oxford University Press, 1994.
vii
Certainly the genre of anti-slavery narrative, of which she wrote the most powerful example, was hugely influential beyond the shores of her own country in proving that women's writing could legitimately address and materially affect matters of the greatest political importance. Elizabeth Barrett Browning
, in a letter to Anna Jameson
in 1855, argued that HBS
, above all women (yes, and men of the age) has moved the world—and for good.
Browning, Elizabeth Barrett. The Letters of Elizabeth Barrett Browning. Editor Kenyon, Frederic G., Macmillan, 1897, 2 vols.
2: 258
In an earlier letter written in 1853, Barrett Browning drew an analogy, common in mid-Victorian Britain, between slavery and gender inequality: I rejoice in [her] success, both as a woman and a human being. Oh, and is it possible that you think a woman has no business with questions like the question of slavery? Then she had better use a pen no more. She had better subside into slavery and concubinage herself, I think, as in the times of old, shut herself up with the Penelopes in the women's apartment, and take no rank among thinkers and speakers.
Browning, Elizabeth Barrett. The Letters of Elizabeth Barrett Browning. Editor Kenyon, Frederic G., Macmillan, 1897, 2 vols.
2: 110-11
Anna Leonowens
placed Uncle Tom's Cabin at the centre of her attack on Thailand's harems and slavery system in The English Governess at the Siamese Court (1870). The novel helped maintain a connection between white middle-class feminism and abolitionism that extended from the British anti-slavery campaign of the late eighteenth and early nineteenth century through to the abolitionist campaign against the Contagious Diseases Acts and the suffrage campaign, in which leaders such as Emmeline Pankhurst
were influenced by HBS
. In mid-twentieth century the US peace activist born Dorothy Rabinowitz
but remembered as Dorothy Stowe (co-founder of Greenpeace
) changed her name and that of her family in honour of HBS
, showing that reverence for her extended to supporters of causes not directly linked with that of slavery.
At first Gladys was taught at home by governesses: the stout, comical angel Fräulein Sanders,
Stern, G. B. Monogram. Chapman and Hall, 1936.
48
followed by several lunatics, one elderly nymphomaniac (unsuccessful) and a prostitute
Stern, G. B. Monogram. Chapman and Hall, 1936.
49
(that is, a governess who was dismissed when a man was found in her bedroom). One of them killed herself two days after leaving the Stern household.
Stern, G. B. Monogram. Chapman and Hall, 1936.
49
Gladys was taught the piano, but not very successfully. One of the first storybooks she remembered was Mrs Molesworth
's "Carrots": Just a Little Boy. Other books of her childhood included two by Grace Aguilar
(Home Influence and The Mother's Recompense), Charlotte Yonge
's The Daisy Chain, and Martha Finley
's Elsie Dinsmore books.
Stern, G. B. Trumpet Voluntary. Cassell, 1944.
80
Stern, G. B. Monogram. Chapman and Hall, 1936.
126, 38
Stern, G. B. A Name to Conjure With. Collins, 1953.
36
Later she said she read and studied purely for pleasure—Literature. especially English Literature, History, Modern Languages—and later regretted never having been trained or compelled to read anything difficult.
FAS
was apparently educated by governesses until her elder sister's education was complete. With the boys away at boarding-school, however, her mother dispensed with the governess when Flora would have been the only pupil, to save money. Afterwards, her mother, who had taught her to read, also taught her to teach herself and did not censor the books available to her. (Her father did not concern himself with his children's education.)
Powell, Violet. Flora Annie Steel: Novelist of India. Heinemann, 1981.
Though nothing specific is known of MS
's education, she became an accomplished linguist. She was probably taught at home, either by her mother or a governess; later she and her little sister had a visiting music master. At about nineteen she was rapturously fond of antiquity, particularly the gothic.
qtd. in
Crawford, Elizabeth. “Posts tagged Mariana Starke”. Woman and her Sphere, 26 July 2012.
As an adult GS
keenly regretted the inadequacy of her education. She shared a governess with her sisters, while her sporty, unbookish brother was sent to Winchester
, a highly academic public school. She read widely, but from at least the age of six she had a reputation with her mother and her nurse as the naughty one of the family.
Riley, Patricia. Looking for Githa. New Writing North, 2009.
Two children, now grown up, reminisce about their plan (never carried through) for disposing of their governess (whose nickname is short for Sadist) by tying her wrists, getting her trapped by the incoming tide, and demanding money with menaces.
Smith, Stevie. Me Again. Editors Barbera, Jack and William McBrien, Vintage, 1983.
It is a powerful tale of greed and deception in which a man seeks to defraud his stepdaughter Lucia by concealing her true identity. One of its characters is a woman of almost forty years of age who goes into service as a governess or lady's companion and who experiences conflicting loyalties in becoming the friend and confidante of her charge.
Sutherland, John, b. 1938. The Stanford Companion to Victorian Fiction. Stanford University Press, 1989.
MS
seems to waver about how to conclude her story. Statira's disgrace is salved when the count's sister (a nun) tells him the story of a woman, Idela de Toggenburg, who had the fortitude to leave her unworthy husband and enter a convent, although she loved him. This tale causes Harton to entertain, for the first time, the possibility of his wife's innocence.
Showes, Mrs. Statira. William Lane, 1798.
164
But Showes chooses after all not to give the novel a happy ending on Statira's vindication. Instead Statira, still not received by her husband, re-appears in the story incognita, in the person of Madame Laborde, a perfect governess for her own children. When the children fall ill with smallpox she nurses them safely through it—only to die of the dread disease herself, leaving her husband to the poignancy of his regrets, for the loss of her, whose worth he did not know how to estimate when living.
At thirteen VSW
began attending a small day school run by Helen Wolff
(whose name is variously spelled in various sources) in South Audley Street, off Park Lane. The staff were mostly male. Vita attended this school with Violet Keppel
(later Trefusis) and Rosamund Grosvenor
(later Lynch).
Although the spelling of Helen Wolff
's name differs among critics and VSW
's biographer Victoria Glendinning
has her school at a South Street, VSW
was likely instructed by the same woman at the same school and at about the same time as Nancy Cunard
and Iris Tree
. Cunard and VSW
also certainly had the same governess, a Miss Scarth.
Chisholm, Anne. Nancy Cunard. Knopf, 1979.
17-18
Blain, Virginia et al., editors. The Feminist Companion to Literature in English: Women Writers from the Middle Ages to the Present. Yale University Press; Batsford, 1990.
Souhami, Diana. Mrs. Keppel and Her Daughter. Flamingo, 1997.
85
Vita and Violet had private Italian lessons together also.
Glendinning, Victoria. Vita. Penguin, 1984.
22, 26-7
Souhami, Diana. Mrs. Keppel and Her Daughter. Flamingo, 1997.
No information is known about LMS
's schooling. It is likely that as a member of an aristocratic family she did not attend school, but was taught at home by a governess. Her poems, however, indicate early and precocious literary knowledge, and a child who dictates a verse drama at the age of six is evidently schooled. Interestingly, she dedicates her Collected Poems, 1939, To you who taught me what no book can teach, though she does not specify who she means.
Sackville, Lady Margaret. Collected Poems of Lady Margaret Sackville. M. Secher, 1939.
prelims
In her introductions both to her selections from Jane Austen and to her anthology of poetry by living women, she writes about the importance of influences—that is, of learning from other writers.
JMR
married his second wife, Sarah Rebecca
(1824-1909). She was a former governess and the daughter of well-known Chartist and journalist William Carpenter
.
Collins, Dick. “James Malcolm Rymer (1814 - 1884)”. The Literary Encyclopedia, 18 June 2008.
Act one opens with Kitty, an emotional girl of twenty-two, helping the two younger Jevons children with their studies.
Engle, Sherry D. New Women Dramatists in America, 1890-1920. Palgrave MacMilan, 2007.
85
Kitty is a relative of and governess for the Jevonses. It quickly becomes clear that Mr and Mrs Jevons do not think highly of her. Will, a neighbour from a respectable family, and Kitty are in love, despite the fact that Will has an understanding with the eldest Jevons daughter, Amelia.
Engle, Sherry D. New Women Dramatists in America, 1890-1920. Palgrave MacMilan, 2007.
85
Edward Sotheby rents a cottage from Mrs Patullo, a pretty, vivacious woman of about twenty-eight.
Engle, Sherry D. New Women Dramatists in America, 1890-1920. Palgrave MacMilan, 2007.
85
Kitty and Will run off together by train to Edinburgh, but Kitty changes her mind and returns. This escapade brings her condemnation from the Jevonses and others in the town. She leaves the Jevons family and Sotheby takes her in. This produces small-town gossip, and Sotheby tries to make things right by proposing to Kitty despite the fact that he is in love with Mrs Patullo, who reciprocates his feelings. Mrs Patullo then reveals that she is posing as a grass widow (a woman, that is, with an absent husband) in order to protect her wealth. In fact, she is not married. Kitty learns of the pair's feelings and leaves town in order to free Sotheby from any obligation to her.
Engle, Sherry D. New Women Dramatists in America, 1890-1920. Palgrave MacMilan, 2007.
Royde-Smith, Naomi. Jane Fairfax. Macmillan, –Sept. 1940.
vii
The name of Sherwood is there because, having read her posthumous novel Caroline Mordaunt; or, The Governess as a child, NRS
went back to it for writing her Fairfax book.
Royde-Smith, Naomi, and Denis Dighton. The State of Mind of Mrs. Sherwood. Macmillan, 1946.
xvi
The novel was reprinted two months after publication.
On leaving the St Quintins' school FAR
became a governess. Her employers included, for several years, Lord Bessborough
(one of whose children was the future Lady Caroline Lamb
).
Mitford, Mary Russell. The Life of Mary Russell Mitford: Told by Herself in Letters To Her Friends. Editor L’Estrange, Alfred Guy Kingham, Harper and Brothers, 1870, 2 vols.
Nothing is known of her except that she had a daughter, who published an anonymous, didactic, Christian novel entitled The Governess; or, Politics in Private Life, 1836.
RMR
dedicated this work to Major-General Sir Adam Williamson
, a career soldier who had very recently returned to England after a spell as governor-general of Jamaica.
Garside, Peter et al., editors. The English Novel 1770-1829. Oxford University Press, 2000, 2 vols.
1: 691
Matthew, Henry Colin Gray et al., editors. Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. http://www.oxforddnb.com/.
under Williamson
Writing it just after her father's death, she felt she lacked the confidence which his judgement would have given her.
Archives of the Royal Literary Fund, 1790-1918.
In any case, it was her best-seller. A second edition (and a French translation) followed in 1797, and by 1825 eight more editions (including ones at Philadelphia and Cork) and a German translation appeared. It was continuously in print until 1882. An edition in English was issued at Paris in 1807, and it was one of the earliest titles included in a series called Collection des Meilleurs Romans Anglais.
Feminist Companion Archive.
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Stuart Bennett Rare Books & Manuscripts: A Catalogue of Books By, For, and About Women of the British Isles, 1696-1892. Stuart Bennett Rare Books & Manuscripts, Feb. 2007.
At her first meeting with the sixteen-month-old Princess Charlotte
's probationary sub-governess, Anne Haydon, Princess Caroline not only recommended the book but lent her employee her copy.
Ford, Susan Allen. “The Princess and her Privy Purse”. JASNA News, Vol.
In the same year, 1803, she was suggested by Thomas Erskine
as a suitable person to become governess to the seven-year-old Princess Charlotte
, who stood second in line for the British throne. She wrote in courtierly terms of her willingness to take up the honour of educating the princess, but she was not in the end appointed.
MacNaughton, Angus. Burns’ Mrs Riddell. A Biography. Volturna Press, 1975.
Taught by governesses until she was thirteen, Margaret Haig Thomas learned to read at about five. She was taught German and French, and she also learned Welsh as a child but did not retain it in adulthood.
Eoff, Shirley. Viscountess Rhondda: Equalitarian Feminist. Ohio State University Press, 1991.
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Rhondda, Margaret Haig, Viscountess. This Was My World. Macmillan, 1933.
6, 8, 11, 14
She wrote that she learnt what trifles I did from governesses.
qtd. in
Blain, Virginia et al., editors. The Feminist Companion to Literature in English: Women Writers from the Middle Ages to the Present. Yale University Press; Batsford, 1990.
Margaret's aunt Charlotte Haig
, who had wanted to be a doctor and who, in the absence of formal education, made do by reading science books, drew her niece's attention to Arnold
's poetry and Gibbon
's history. Margaret also enjoyed Kipling
's The Jungle Book and Stevenson
's Ballads. She read, with the digestion of a shark,
Rhondda, Margaret Haig, Viscountess. This Was My World. Macmillan, 1933.