Even more grim than her accounts of actual fighting are her accounts of the context and the aftermath: constant brutal cold or heat, disease, accident, and dead bodies, human and animal. The road from the harbour to the camp became sickening to ride along from the numbers of dead & dying horses.
Duberly, Frances Isabella. Mrs Duberly’s War. Journals and Letters from the Crimea, 1854-6. Editor Kelly, Christine, Oxford University Press, 2007.
In DDB
's fictionalised account of her father, he is irrationally and childishly jealous, given to uttering threats of serious violence. Like Mary Wollstonecraft
, Dorothea knew what it was as a child to try to protect her mother from her father.
Du Bois, Dorothea. Theodora. Printed for the author by C. Kiernan, 1770, 2 vols.
She was appalled by what she witnessed, writing I was almost struck dumb and I felt sick for hours. It was a most horrible experience. I have rarely been in anything more unpleasant—it was ghastly and the loud laughter & hideous remarks of the men—so-called gentlemen—even of the correctly attired top-hatted kind—was truly awful.
qtd. in
Frye, Kate Parry. “Introduction”. Campaigning for the Vote: Kate Parry Frye’s Suffrage Diary, edited by Elizabeth Crawford, Francis Boutle Publishers, 2013, pp. 9-34.
JW
as a child was often left hungry, or beaten, or shut outdoors all night as a punishment. When a church elder tried to convert her to heterosexuality by first beating, then kissing her, she bit his tongue, letting quantities of blood.
Williams, Zoe. “In search of peace”. Guardian Weekly, 25 Nov. 2011, pp. 39-40.
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Sturges, Fiona. “Why Be Happy When You Could be Normal? By Jeanette Winterson”. The Independent, 6 Nov. 2011.
Later, while she was kept by the Marquess of Lorne but in love with Lord Ponsonby, Frederic Lamb
visited HW
and, when she refused to have sex with him, almost raped her. In casual conversation with friends, he talked of his emotional pain while inflicting physical pain on her.
Wilson, Frances. The Courtesan’s Revenge. Faber, 2003.
Not long after the separation, EW
had a court case brought against her at Edinburgh for assaulting a woman whom she seems to have employed as a companion. She was directed by the magistrate to compound the matter.
Matthew, Henry Colin Gray et al., editors. Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. http://www.oxforddnb.com/.
When AW
was thirteen she was persuaded by her sister Ruth to visit the mortuary to see the body of a woman (mother of one of her classmates) who had been murdered by her husband. Ruth wanted Alice to be able to bear witness.
White, Evelyn. Alice Walker. A Life. Norton, 2004.
FT
's husband abducted their youngest daughter, Aline
, on her way to school. A violent confrontation between Chazal
and his wife ensued, which ended in her arrest.
Grogan, Susan. Flora Tristan: Life Stories. Routledge, 1998.
When Reynolds briefly left her alone at the common dining-table of an inn in Calais, LS
was insulted by men who apparently regarded her as common property.
Reynolds, Frederick. The Life and Times of Frederick Reynolds. Benjamin Blom, 1969, 2 vols.
She worked with Emmeline
and Christabel Pankhurst
, and became a militant suffragette. Like Constance Lytton
, she overcame both natural timidity and physical frailty to take part in demonstrations which were often met with a violent response from police. She was once painfully ejected from a meeting after formally refusing, according to suffrage policy, to shake Asquith
's hand till you give women the vote.
Schütze, Gladys Henrietta. More Ha’pence Than Kicks. Jarrolds.
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She was never arrested, partly through the good advice of a London policeman, Donald Taylor
, who married one of her maids and lived in fear of having to take her into custody.
Schütze, Gladys Henrietta. More Ha’pence Than Kicks. Jarrolds.
After the horrifying sale (for 57 Bermuda pounds), her female owner began to teach her what slavery could be: she was licked, and flogged, and pinched by her pitiless fingers (with ingenious variations to make it worse, like being flogged while hung up by the wrists, naked) for even a very slight offence.
Prince, Mary, and Ziggi Alexander. The History of Mary Prince, a West Indian Slave. Editor Ferguson, Moira, Pandora, 1987.
Overt political violence was not the only kind practised. A gentile boy threw Kaethe down and was raping her when she managed to scare him off. When she told a teacher, the response she received was: But in fact nothing happened.
NH
's father would physically punish her when her behaviour deviated from prescribed Victorian gender roles. Denise Hooker
, NH
's biographer, notes that her father regularly tried to beat her into submission with a bamboo cane.
Hooker, Denise. Nina Hamnett: queen of bohemia. Constable and Company Limited, 1986.
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NH
recalls the perversity of her father's violent episodes: If I had behaved badly during the morning I was locked into his dressing-room to wait for him to come home. . . . When he arrived, he made a noise like a lion, took the bag of canes, and tried each one out on his hand to see which was the most effective, then as I skipped about and screamed he would cut me on the legs or anywhere he could.
Hamnett, Nina. Laughing Torso. Ray Long & Richard R. Smith, Inc., 1932.
When LLH
was about ten and her father
was imprisoned in the Tower of London, the home of her family in Lincoln's Inn Fields, London, was broken into at midnight by an armed mob.
Matthew, Henry Colin Gray et al., editors. Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. http://www.oxforddnb.com/.
Laura Richards apparently had a very difficult relationship with her daughters. A woman friend who observed the eight-year-old Pearl being impudent to her mother wrote: I was not pleased—but laughed inside. She is such a clever monkey.
Richards, John Morgan, and John Oliver Hobbes. “Pearl Richards Craigie: Biographical Sketch by her Father”. The Life of John Oliver Hobbes, J. Murray, 1911.
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JOH
's biographer Mildred Davis Harding
describes Laura Richards as tactless, tyrannical, superstitious, fanatically religious, and eccentric to the point of madness—a constant embarrassment and trial to Pearl and her sister, indeed driving them more than once to the verge of suicide.
Harding, Mildred Davis. Air-Bird in the Water. Associated University Presses, 1996.
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JOH
recalled beatings by her mother (often with the heel of her shoe), and there were constant arguments between the two throughout their lives.
Harding, Mildred Davis. Air-Bird in the Water. Associated University Presses, 1996.
EJ
's autobiography alludes mysteriously to a secret which she cannot reveal—a shadow which has haunted me like a vampire
Johnston, Ellen. Autobiography, Poems, and Songs. William Love, 1867.
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—and repeatedly to her stepfather as being her tormenter
Johnston, Ellen. Autobiography, Poems, and Songs. William Love, 1867.
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from some time following the start of her first job, when she was approaching puberty. She describes herself as near suicide by drowning herself in the Paisley Canal. Instead, she fled her home, only to be returned by her uncle to her mother who, when Ellen would not divulge her reasons for leaving, beat her, EJ
says, till I felt as if my brain were on fire.
Johnston, Ellen. Autobiography, Poems, and Songs. William Love, 1867.
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Ellen still kept her secret (divulged only much later when her mother was close to death) and in the space of four years she ran away five times.
Johnston, Ellen. Autobiography, Poems, and Songs. William Love, 1867.
When Anna and Louis arrived at the palace the next day, they were confronted there by a party of rude fellows and soldiers, who thrust us back with threats, and even took up stones to throw at us. I dare not think what might have been our fate, but for the generous rescue of a crowd of the poorest slaves, who at that hour were waiting for the opening of the gate. These rallied around us, and guarded us back to our home. It was indeed a time of terror for us. I felt that my life was in great danger . . . .
Leonowens, Anna. The English Governess at the Siamese Court. Oxford University Press, 1988.
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Eventually the rift between AL
and Mongkut was repaired and she returned to work unthreatened, but this incident seemed to confirm her early wisdom in insisting that she should reside outside the walls of the harem.
Dow, Leslie Smith. Anna Leonowens: A Life Beyond The King and I. Pottersfield, 1991.