When MA
was only seven, during her year in St Louis, her mother's boyfriend Mr Freeman (a foreman on the railways) raped her. First, one morning when she had been sleeping in her mother's bed, he masturbated with her lying on his chest, while she thought he might be going to die of a heart attack. Afterwards he told her she had wet the bed, which she knew was not true, but also he held her so gently that she felt in a confused way that this must be her real father. He swore her to secrecy on her brother's life (the first secret she had ever kept from Bailey), and left her still feeling drawn to him, though more confused than ever. After another masturbation episode, he actually raped her painfully, and threatened to kill her if she told. She suffered pain, fever, hospitalization, before she told her brother who had done it.
Angelou, Maya. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings. Heinemann New Windmill Series, 1995.
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In court, a lawyer tried to undermine her. Did the accused try to touch you before the time he or rather you say he raped you? The child understood that she must lie and said No.
Angelou, Maya. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings. Heinemann New Windmill Series, 1995.
SJ deleted a passage from her draft autobiography about her mother beating her when she was six months old and trying to crawl up the stairs, which was forbidden: six attempts, six beatings, before her mother confined her in her cot.22, 24
Their relationship was also violent almost from the beginning. It was only a few months after the wedding that George first seized Caroline by the nape of the neck and threw her to the floor. A pattern developed in which she would tease or goad him with her superior intelligence; he would beat her, after which he would grovelingly apologise.
Chedzoy, Alan. A Scandalous Woman: The Story of Caroline Norton. Allison and Busby, 1995.
BB
maintained (the story varying somewhat on different occasions) that she had been sexually molested—bothered or fiddled with—as a child, but that this was a common experience and had not particularly affected her.
In summer 1900 the family's life was disrupted by the Boxer Rebellion, an outbreak of spontaneous and violent demonstrations against foreigners which responded partly to famine and displacement of population, and partly to political machinations of Russia, Japan, and European powers. Christians, including Absalom Sydenstricker's Chinese lieutenant and right-hand man, were martyred. The family retreated first to Shanghai and then to the USA on leave. Pearl repressed her memories of sights and sounds that children ought not to have seen or heard.
Spurling, Hilary. Pearl Buck in China. Simon and Schuster, 2010.
Virginia Stephen
endured the sexual aggression of her half-brother George Duckworth
. After returning from the fashionable balls and parties he escorted her to, he would pursue her into her bedroom and fondle her.
Lee, Hermione. Virginia Woolf. Chatto and Windus, 1996.
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Woolf, Virginia. Moments of Being. Editor Schulkind, Jeanne, Chatto and Windus for Sussex University Press, 1976.
When his mistress asked him years later about Ann's injury (caused by a blow from him when she was a toddler), he said it was done by the midwife at her birth.
Wall, Ann. The Life of Lamenther. Printed for the proprietor, 1771.
Following the newspaper pieces, a duel either took place or was elaborately faked between Stoney and the Rev. Henry Bate
, founder and proprietor of the Morning Post. Stoney was (or elaborately pretended to be) badly wounded, and then played on the countess's gratitude for his efforts as her champion to press her to marriage. Whether the duel was actual or fictional, it indicates the lengths to which he was prepared to go in his unusual courtship.
His severe mental problems were not apparent when they met, but in Africa he was violently quarrelsome (which caused frequent moves from one school to another), and also violently jealous. After the birth of their son, MS
learned from her parents that her husband's sister had been committed as an insane person.
Graham was said to have spoken his first words, to his mother, several months after an occasion when his sister's pug was run over in the street, and his nurse put the corpse into his pram with him for easier transport home. The words were: Poor dog.
Sherry, Norman. The Life of Graham Greene: Volume I. Random House, 2004.
An early sexual encounter of BH
, perhaps her first, was violent and unwanted: a rape by an unidentified man whom before this she had admired. In other contexts she said that she had a nervous disposition which disabled her from enduring violence.
When she was fourteen, EJH
's father began sexually assaulting her. She could speak to nobody about this but took care not to be alone with him. Her mother became displeased when she began rejecting his ordinary marks of affection.
Howard, Elizabeth Jane. Slipstream. Macmillan, 2002.
CM
saw a lot of violence in her childhood, as she later recalled: hounds tearing foxes to pieces, my mother triumphantly displaying the bleeding corpse of a pheasant or a rabbit.
Mackworth, Cecily. Ends of the World. Carcanet, 1987.
It seems clear from EA
's narrative that the difference that happened between her and her master consisted of her resistance to his sexual abuse. When he and his clergymen cronies prayed, she used to think, if there is a God, he is a pure Being, and will not hear the prayers of polluted lips.
Ashbridge, Elizabeth, and Arthur Charles Curtis. Quaker Grey. Astolat Press, 1904.
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The one woman she confided in allowed the news of her confidence to get back to her master, and though he knew it was true, yet he sent for the Town Whipper to correct me for it.
Ashbridge, Elizabeth, and Arthur Charles Curtis. Quaker Grey. Astolat Press, 1904.
While at school at Ilford she had an encounter with a man who exposed himself to her in the park. She concealed this incident, since the man's activities had already been reported and students had been forbidden to go through the park on their way home.
Bawden, Nina. In My Own Time: Almost An Autobiography. Virago, 1995.
The marriage was fraught with violence. Edward
once bit a chunk out of his wife's cheek during a fight. During another dispute, Rosina
burnt Edward's favourite shirt.
Lytton, Rosina Bulwer Lytton, Baroness. “Introduction”. A Blighted Life, edited by Marie Mulvey Roberts, Thoemmes, 1994, p. vi - xxxvi.
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Blain, Virginia. “Rosina Bulwer Lytton and the Rage of the Unheard”. The Huntington Library Quarterly, Vol.